Are you single and "looking"? Why not approach your quest for a mate the same way you would for a job.  Do some research online and then go out and "interview".  There are literally millions of other people, some just like you, who want to meet someone and who are looking for that person online.  Begin your research by reading the article on Online Dating. You can prepare even further by reading one or more of the many books available on the market.  Then once you are ready visit some of the many online dating sites out there, pick one or two that you are comfortable with, and sign up!

There are advantages to online dating.  You will be able to choose from a larger and more varied group of people than you would find in the local nightclub or similar singles gathering spots.  You can "meet" these people in the privacy of your own home (via email messages at first) and at whatever time of the day is convenient for you.  Many people find it easier to converse online than in "real life", at least when they are first meeting.  Just be a bit discriminating in the process, get to know someone online before setting up an actual date.  Others have been doing this for years, now it's your turn!  Keep an open mind and enjoy the search!